Sexual Fantasy

I find it interesting and very creative of our minds to come up with sexual fantasies.Some people may have them while masturbating, sexual intercourse, and even in their dreams. A study shows that sexual fantasies are positively correlated to orgasmic potential. So why do most people find it vulgar to talk about? Most believe it's vulgar because talking about sex is seen as vulgar. Fantasies in my worlds are a kick start to a creative sexual relationship with ones partner if shared.

I find it very interesting that most women find it offencive, I myself do, when their boyfriend or husband have sexual fantasies with other women but yet we as women do it ourselves. So what drives us to hate it so much when our partners do it? That's something I cannot answer but can guess that it relates to the topic of jealousy and probably a portion of low self-confidence. The partner would never in real life go through with their fantasy unless the fantasy has there partner involved in it. That's something I tell myself when I think that my boyfriend has sexual fantasies with other women.

Fantasies are seen as an imaginary world. A place where your aloud to do anything without having to think you will go to jail, get divorced, dumped, etc. It's a way for humans to be creative with their sexual self. Study shows that 50% of women have sexual fantasies of having forced sex. When I first read this I thought it was crazy, why would a woman want forced sex. I did not believe it at first but then I told my friend about that and she said she does sometimes and that a friend of hers actually role played forced sex before. After hearing that I believed it and just realised that I am one of the few women that do not fantasize that.