What makes a person attractive? This question was brought up in class to think about. In my own experience I find my boyfriend to be attractive because hes muscular,tanned, humorous, loyal, mature, has a stable job, gets along with my family, and I know that he loves me. I thought men and women had the same views on attractiveness but today I found out that it's not necessarily true. According to Buss, in long-term relationships women look for a provider while men look for sexual attractiveness.
Even thought I do believe most men value what their wives and girlfriends do for them but in another way I also believe that men can take women for granted. I don't mean to sound feminist but by watching some television shows, I find that men sometimes value the woman's physical looks rather that what they do around the house for the family.
This is a clip I found from According to Jim. I find it presents several examples of Jim taking Cheryl for granted, just as some men do to their wives and girlfriends.
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